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They think I'm Elvis," Stanley whispers
SELMA, N.C. — His sermon complete, the visiting preacher offers a benediction, then steps out into the vestibule to shake hands and perhaps sell a few copies of his testimonial book.
From the mob that forms, a girl pushes to the front and thrusts out her hand to reveal a bejeweled Elvis Presley wristwatch. The preacher smiles graciously as a white-haired woman bends his ear about her pilgrimages to Graceland. Others tell of watching Elvis on television or driving with friends to the next town over on Saturday afternoons to catch his latest movie.
The pastor beams. He knows most of the people who have turned out for evening service at Branch Chapel Freewill Baptist didn't come to hear Rick Stanley, evangelist.
They came for Elvis' stepbrother.
"Those little ladies, telling them stories. ... They think I'm Elvis," Stanley whispers, almost conspiratorially. "Well, I'm the closest thing to it — to them."
Elvis has been dead 33 years, but his stepbrother is still on the road. For about 10 months of the year, the silver-haired evangelist crisscrosses the country, speaking in school auditoriums and preaching for "love offerings" in churches big and small, his message equal parts Holy Spirit and Elvis' ghost. Where he once worked behind the scenes as Presley's personal aide, Stanley has since become something of a celebrity himself — sharing the stage with the likes of Billy Graham and holding hands in prayer with former President Bill Clinton.
A former heroin addict, he uses the story of his own journey from Graceland to grace as an example of Christ's redemptive love.
"I wouldn't have anything without Elvis," he says, simply. "I mean, I was trailer trash."
Stanley makes no apologies about using Elvis' name to minister. But there are those who feel he should.
Some of those who were closest to Elvis question the sincerity of Stanley's conversion. They say he has exaggerated his association with the singer, that the money he accepts for speaking is for his own personal gain.
Worst of all, they say, he has yet to come clean about the day "the King" died.
Says Jerry Schilling, Elvis' boyhood friend and manager: "He doesn't exist to me, OK?"
At 56, Stanley is 14 years older than Elvis was when he died. The future preacher was 5 when he and his brothers — Billy and David — entered what he calls "E World."
It was 1958, and the family was living in West Germany, where father Bill Stanley was stationed with the Army. That same year, a young draftee named Elvis Presley arrived, with his dad, Vernon, in tow.
Bill Stanley was an alcoholic, and his wife, Dee, was very unhappy. Then she met Vernon, and the petite blond mother of three soon started divorce proceedings.
Before they knew it, the boys were in the back seat of a shiny Lincoln Continental en route to Memphis, Tenn.
Elvis, whose twin brother was stillborn, lavished gifts on his new stepbrothers. He would rent a movie theater or book an amusement park and keep the boys out all night. Elvis' maid drove them to school in the singer's pink Cadillac.
At 16, Stanley quit school and went on the road with Elvis as part of the "Memphis Mafia" — the singer's inner circle.
As his stepbrother's aide, Stanley was often entrusted with the "black kit" — the small bag containing Elvis' cash, credit cards, jewelry and, as the years progressed, a growing array of prescription drugs.
Stanley was taking pills, too. When he was arrested in 1975 for trying to pass a forged prescription for Demerol, Elvis personally bailed him out of jail.
He went into rehab and was briefly exiled from the entourage. He became addicted to heroin and had to be hospitalized for hepatitis.
Stanley says it was during this dark period that the seeds of his conversion were planted.
When he was about 17, he met 15-year-old Robyn Moye at a party, and they became friends. Robyn told him she was praying for him and invited him to church; Stanley declined her invitations.
As the disco era dawned, the aging Elvis struggled to reinvent himself. By then, the singer had ballooned to 250 pounds and was taking handfuls of pills a day. Things were so bad that members of Presley's entourage took 24-hour shifts, making sure nothing happened to the singer.
On Aug. 16, 1977, Stanley's shift was supposed to begin at noon. Stanley says he was at Graceland late the night before when Robyn called, sobbing. She'd dreamed he had died and gone to hell. Shaken, Stanley says he went to see Elvis. He says he sat at the foot of Presley's bed, and the two talked about prayer and faith.
SELMA, N.C. — Eight hours later, "the King" was gone. The official cause of death was listed as heart disease, but tests revealed a potent mixture of prescription drugs in Presley's system.
The day he died, Elvis was supposed to be leaving on tour. Stanley says he had some errands to run before they left, and asked his brother David to take his shift.
He says he was at a Memphis restaurant when he had a sudden feeling that something was wrong at the mansion. He claims to have arrived just as the ambulance was racing away.
But according to Dick Grob, Elvis' chief of security, David Stanley admitted that he and his brother had been partying with women all night at a motel and were passed out when Elvis died.
Elvis' personal physician, George Nichopoulos, "Dr. Nick," repeated the allegations in his own book.
David Stanley, the youngest of the brothers, insists the interview with Grob never happened.
Rick Stanley acknowledges having taken drugs the night before, but he says he was sober when he left Elvis that morning. Even if he had been there, he doubts it would have made a difference.
"Well, if everybody would have done what they should've, we'd have got in the guy's face a long time ago, all of us, and done a — what do they call it now where you set them down? Intervention? — and left," he says. "But that didn't happen."
After Elvis' funeral, Stanley drifted to California, then eventually made his way to Fort Walton Beach, Fla., where Robyn's family had moved.
It was there, in a little storefront church on Oct. 16, 1977, that he says he had his "Damascus road experience." His hands were shaking when he stood up to give his first public testimony about Jesus, but the core of his life's message was already firmly in place.
Louisiana evangelist Moody Adams heard about Stanley's conversion and asked him to speak at a revival he was holding in Pearl, Miss. The July 2, 1978, event was in a high school football stadium where Stanley says Elvis had once played.
When he arrived, police were directing traffic, and people were waving signs — only this time, it was for him.
"And I realized at that minute why I went through everything I did as a child and a teenager," he wrote in his 1986 book, "The Touch of Two Kings."
Stanley and Moye married in September 1978.
Two years later, the Rev. W.A. Criswell, founder of Dallas' Criswell College and a former president of the Southern Baptist Convention, offered to put the young evangelist through school.
Stanley got his General Educational Development certificate and, in 1986, emerged from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary with an associate degree in divinity.
In the years of his ministry, Stanley says he has visited more than 4,000 churches. He gives a secular stay-off-drugs version of his presentation at about 200 high schools a year.
But there are those who don't buy his story of his spiritual rebirth.
"The Stanleys, including Ricky, would lie to you with two Bibles in his hand," said Marty Lacker, Elvis' friend, former bookkeeper and one of the best men at his wedding.
Schilling, Elvis' former manager, would say only that he doesn't "find him consistent."
"I don't really have much energy to put on Rick Stanley, you know?" he says from his home in Los Angeles. "I try and spend my life not thinking of the negativities of the past."
There are discrepancies — some subtle, some not so — between the stories Stanley tells in church and those contained in the three Elvis books he's co-authored.
If he has gotten some things mixed up over the years, Stanley attributes it to faulty memory, the fog of addiction or "adult ADD."
David Stanley — who has co-written a book and made a film about his life with Elvis — says much of the criticism is born of envy.
"The one thing that no one can take away from Ricky Stanley is the fact of the fact that he was Presley's brother," he told the AP in a phone interview. "And God bless Ricky for what he does. Because the only king is Christ."
Rick Stanley says he's willing to accept his portion of the blame for Elvis's death — but not all of it.
"People don't know the guilt I've carried," he says softly. "I'm the guy that was supposed to be there to keep him alive, you know? And I've never run from that."
www.statesman.com/news/nation/the-gospel-according-to-elvis-presleys-stepbrother-1063265.html
SELMA, N.C. — His sermon complete, the visiting preacher offers a benediction, then steps out into the vestibule to shake hands and perhaps sell a few copies of his testimonial book.
From the mob that forms, a girl pushes to the front and thrusts out her hand to reveal a bejeweled Elvis Presley wristwatch. The preacher smiles graciously as a white-haired woman bends his ear about her pilgrimages to Graceland. Others tell of watching Elvis on television or driving with friends to the next town over on Saturday afternoons to catch his latest movie.
The pastor beams. He knows most of the people who have turned out for evening service at Branch Chapel Freewill Baptist didn't come to hear Rick Stanley, evangelist.
They came for Elvis' stepbrother.
"Those little ladies, telling them stories. ... They think I'm Elvis," Stanley whispers, almost conspiratorially. "Well, I'm the closest thing to it — to them."
Elvis has been dead 33 years, but his stepbrother is still on the road. For about 10 months of the year, the silver-haired evangelist crisscrosses the country, speaking in school auditoriums and preaching for "love offerings" in churches big and small, his message equal parts Holy Spirit and Elvis' ghost. Where he once worked behind the scenes as Presley's personal aide, Stanley has since become something of a celebrity himself — sharing the stage with the likes of Billy Graham and holding hands in prayer with former President Bill Clinton.
A former heroin addict, he uses the story of his own journey from Graceland to grace as an example of Christ's redemptive love.
"I wouldn't have anything without Elvis," he says, simply. "I mean, I was trailer trash."
Stanley makes no apologies about using Elvis' name to minister. But there are those who feel he should.
Some of those who were closest to Elvis question the sincerity of Stanley's conversion. They say he has exaggerated his association with the singer, that the money he accepts for speaking is for his own personal gain.
Worst of all, they say, he has yet to come clean about the day "the King" died.
Says Jerry Schilling, Elvis' boyhood friend and manager: "He doesn't exist to me, OK?"
At 56, Stanley is 14 years older than Elvis was when he died. The future preacher was 5 when he and his brothers — Billy and David — entered what he calls "E World."
It was 1958, and the family was living in West Germany, where father Bill Stanley was stationed with the Army. That same year, a young draftee named Elvis Presley arrived, with his dad, Vernon, in tow.
Bill Stanley was an alcoholic, and his wife, Dee, was very unhappy. Then she met Vernon, and the petite blond mother of three soon started divorce proceedings.
Before they knew it, the boys were in the back seat of a shiny Lincoln Continental en route to Memphis, Tenn.
Elvis, whose twin brother was stillborn, lavished gifts on his new stepbrothers. He would rent a movie theater or book an amusement park and keep the boys out all night. Elvis' maid drove them to school in the singer's pink Cadillac.
At 16, Stanley quit school and went on the road with Elvis as part of the "Memphis Mafia" — the singer's inner circle.
As his stepbrother's aide, Stanley was often entrusted with the "black kit" — the small bag containing Elvis' cash, credit cards, jewelry and, as the years progressed, a growing array of prescription drugs.
Stanley was taking pills, too. When he was arrested in 1975 for trying to pass a forged prescription for Demerol, Elvis personally bailed him out of jail.
He went into rehab and was briefly exiled from the entourage. He became addicted to heroin and had to be hospitalized for hepatitis.
Stanley says it was during this dark period that the seeds of his conversion were planted.
When he was about 17, he met 15-year-old Robyn Moye at a party, and they became friends. Robyn told him she was praying for him and invited him to church; Stanley declined her invitations.
As the disco era dawned, the aging Elvis struggled to reinvent himself. By then, the singer had ballooned to 250 pounds and was taking handfuls of pills a day. Things were so bad that members of Presley's entourage took 24-hour shifts, making sure nothing happened to the singer.
On Aug. 16, 1977, Stanley's shift was supposed to begin at noon. Stanley says he was at Graceland late the night before when Robyn called, sobbing. She'd dreamed he had died and gone to hell. Shaken, Stanley says he went to see Elvis. He says he sat at the foot of Presley's bed, and the two talked about prayer and faith.
SELMA, N.C. — Eight hours later, "the King" was gone. The official cause of death was listed as heart disease, but tests revealed a potent mixture of prescription drugs in Presley's system.
The day he died, Elvis was supposed to be leaving on tour. Stanley says he had some errands to run before they left, and asked his brother David to take his shift.
He says he was at a Memphis restaurant when he had a sudden feeling that something was wrong at the mansion. He claims to have arrived just as the ambulance was racing away.
But according to Dick Grob, Elvis' chief of security, David Stanley admitted that he and his brother had been partying with women all night at a motel and were passed out when Elvis died.
Elvis' personal physician, George Nichopoulos, "Dr. Nick," repeated the allegations in his own book.
David Stanley, the youngest of the brothers, insists the interview with Grob never happened.
Rick Stanley acknowledges having taken drugs the night before, but he says he was sober when he left Elvis that morning. Even if he had been there, he doubts it would have made a difference.
"Well, if everybody would have done what they should've, we'd have got in the guy's face a long time ago, all of us, and done a — what do they call it now where you set them down? Intervention? — and left," he says. "But that didn't happen."
After Elvis' funeral, Stanley drifted to California, then eventually made his way to Fort Walton Beach, Fla., where Robyn's family had moved.
It was there, in a little storefront church on Oct. 16, 1977, that he says he had his "Damascus road experience." His hands were shaking when he stood up to give his first public testimony about Jesus, but the core of his life's message was already firmly in place.
Louisiana evangelist Moody Adams heard about Stanley's conversion and asked him to speak at a revival he was holding in Pearl, Miss. The July 2, 1978, event was in a high school football stadium where Stanley says Elvis had once played.
When he arrived, police were directing traffic, and people were waving signs — only this time, it was for him.
"And I realized at that minute why I went through everything I did as a child and a teenager," he wrote in his 1986 book, "The Touch of Two Kings."
Stanley and Moye married in September 1978.
Two years later, the Rev. W.A. Criswell, founder of Dallas' Criswell College and a former president of the Southern Baptist Convention, offered to put the young evangelist through school.
Stanley got his General Educational Development certificate and, in 1986, emerged from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary with an associate degree in divinity.
In the years of his ministry, Stanley says he has visited more than 4,000 churches. He gives a secular stay-off-drugs version of his presentation at about 200 high schools a year.
But there are those who don't buy his story of his spiritual rebirth.
"The Stanleys, including Ricky, would lie to you with two Bibles in his hand," said Marty Lacker, Elvis' friend, former bookkeeper and one of the best men at his wedding.
Schilling, Elvis' former manager, would say only that he doesn't "find him consistent."
"I don't really have much energy to put on Rick Stanley, you know?" he says from his home in Los Angeles. "I try and spend my life not thinking of the negativities of the past."
There are discrepancies — some subtle, some not so — between the stories Stanley tells in church and those contained in the three Elvis books he's co-authored.
If he has gotten some things mixed up over the years, Stanley attributes it to faulty memory, the fog of addiction or "adult ADD."
David Stanley — who has co-written a book and made a film about his life with Elvis — says much of the criticism is born of envy.
"The one thing that no one can take away from Ricky Stanley is the fact of the fact that he was Presley's brother," he told the AP in a phone interview. "And God bless Ricky for what he does. Because the only king is Christ."
Rick Stanley says he's willing to accept his portion of the blame for Elvis's death — but not all of it.
"People don't know the guilt I've carried," he says softly. "I'm the guy that was supposed to be there to keep him alive, you know? And I've never run from that."
www.statesman.com/news/nation/the-gospel-according-to-elvis-presleys-stepbrother-1063265.html